Delay is a Ghanaian entrepreneur and radio/TV personality. She runs the Delay Show and the owner of Delay Mackerel.
Delay, real name Deloris Frimpong Manso can be deemed successful in every aspect of the word but she still remains single.
She has not made public anybody she’s seeing but we suspect that she’s seeing someone.
In recent times, men have began looking for independent women for relationships since they believe such women are focused and do not need a man to take care of them.
However, there are issues with such relationships and that’s what Delay seems to bring to light with her recent post on IG.
According to Delay, independent women are able to build the strenght they have through putting up walls around thme to block toxicity.
She indicated that they know better than to just let down their barriers for a man simply because he voices a desire to enter. They’ll doubt you so it’s up to you the man to prove them wrong.
This makes so much sense.
Read it below:
Men,you say you want a strong, intelligent, truly independent woman who wants you rather than needs you, who inspires you, who pushes you towards being yourself, who can stick by you through the hardest times, and who can be your rock through life’s obstacles.
But you need to know that a truly strong, independent woman does not walk through life with her heart wide open. She has had to put up walls to block toxicity to obtain her strength. She is skeptical and always on alert from a lifetime of defense against predators. She is going to be a bit jaded, a little cynical, and a little scary because those qualities come with the struggle of obtaining that strength that gravitates you. She is going to doubt and question your good intentions because it has become her adaptability instincts that have allowed her to thrive.
She is not a ball of sunshine. She has flaws. She has a past. She has her demons. She knows better than to just let down her barriers for you simply because you voice a desire to enter. You have to prove your right of entrance. She will assume the worst of you because the worst has happened. If you want her to see otherwise, prove her wrong!!!